HAIRINPIRATION: The Middle Part

I think of three people when I think about middle parting: Kendall Jenner, Miranda Kerr and Selena Gomez.
These three girls are the ones who are usually rocking the middle parting.
I've also included Candice Swanepoel and Rosie Huntington.

I still prefer a side parting but it's sometimes nice to change things up.

An Epiphany On Commitment

I had an epiphany.
And I can't say it's a good one.

The girl who believes in commitment, can't stay committed.
It sparked in me as I was having a conversation about watching TV series and in further recollection, it's become a joke among one of my close friends, that I am unable to finish a single TV series.

And I realised it's because, up to some point, they bore me. And then I relate this to commitment... and relationships.

I get bored. I can't stay committed.
Oh dear lord. Thank god I didn't head into another relationship before realising this.

For The Times When You Feel Like You Own The World

by arisV8

Back to researching horoscopes, and they say this:

What it's Like to Date a Sagittarius Woman:

She has a great attitude and always seems to be on the go. Sagittarius woman is for the man with lots of energy and creativity. She likes unconventionality and change (unconventional is my word, my first ever monthsary was having McDonalds' takeaway on a basketball court in the rain), so whisk her away last second to somewhere unplanned and uncharted and she will remember you forever (my first love did that to ask me out, whisked me away at an unknown time to an unknown place). In order for her to stay, you have to keep her happy. If she gets unhappy or bored, she won't bother to fix any problems, she will just walk out and never look back (unfortunately that's what I'm doing now). Fortunately, it is not that difficult to keep her happy. Be her friend, she does not take love to seriously anyway, if you are her companion, love will blossom after that. Let her have her freedom (YES, I love my freedom), flirt with her (he hasn't flirted with me ever since... he met me) and take the relationship slowly, do not rush her (when I am rushed, I get scared and I run). Be truthful, genuine, positive and adventurous and never play mind games (oh how I hate mind games, I thought it was only because I've been raised in a household filled with guys). The lucky man will not only have a wonderful fun relationship but an adventurous companion as well. 

Valentine's Day

Tomorrow's Valentines Day and in less than 8 hours he will be back. Back into my life, back into existence. I'm not sure how this will affect things, hopefully it won't affect much. Not the amazing vibe I came home with.

I was surfing the web and came across this photo:

And oh how the memories and emotions sparked in me. A few months back I was there, I was her. Huddled up on the cold tiled floor of the shower quivering in tears. He brought more tears than laughter, more stress than relief. I loved him, I still love him. But I don't love 'us'. We don't fit and I'm a whole lot happier on my own. No more breaking down in the shower or crying myself to sleep. It's time for a change.

And though it saddens me to think I won't be spending Valentine's Day with my first love, or with any guy in that matter, I just have to look at the brighter sides of things. I'm going to be able to spend this special day with my real special someone... one day. My first Valentine reserved for the real one. For now I will continue to embark on my journeys on my own, but not completely alone, with my friends and family beside me. This amazing vibe is not going away because this China trip brought me some more friends that feel so much like family for me to share this special year with. 

It's been a great start and I don't plan on letting it come down anytime soon.  

Happy Valentine's Day, the day to show love to anyone special, whether that be your boyfriend, husband, parents, siblings, friends or yourself. (It's also Victoria's Secret Bombshells' Day so love yourself!!)